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When Depression Kills Your Motivation (And Why It’s Not Laziness)
Depression doesn’t always look like sadness—it often shows up as low motivation, exhaustion, and feeling stuck. Learn how depression affects the brain and how therapy and medication can help, with support available in Brooklyn, NYC, and across New York State.

Odile McKenzie, LCSW
Jan 132 min read


Why Some Couples Break Up Right After the Holidays
The decorations come down. The guests go home. And suddenly, you're sitting across from your partner wondering: when did we become strangers? Research shows 43% of breakups happen in December and January. But the holidays didn't cause the problem—they just made it impossible to ignore. What you're feeling isn't failure. It's clarity trying to break through. Whether you stay and rebuild or leave and start over, the bravest thing you can do is tell the truth—first to yourself,

Odile McKenzie, LCSW
Dec 23, 20255 min read


Finding Your Calm in the Holiday Chaos | Coping With Holiday Stress & Emotions
If the holidays feel heavier than joyful, you’re not alone. Explore gentle, therapist-guided ways to manage holiday stress, grief, and emotional overwhelm with compassion and care.

Danielle Abrenica
Nov 25, 20252 min read


ADHD Awareness Month: Understanding, Supporting & Empowering Those with ADHD
October is ADHD Awareness Month, a time to raise awareness about Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder—a neurodevelopmental condition that affects millions of people worldwide. ADHD is more than being “easily distracted” or “overactive.” It influences how people think, learn, and connect with others. By understanding ADHD and moving beyond stereotypes, we can create more inclusive environments where individuals feel supported and empowered to thrive.

Danielle Abrenica
Oct 14, 20252 min read


Emotional Manipulation in Dating: How to Spot Negging, Breadcrumbing, Lovebombing & Gaslighting
Dating today can feel like a maze of mixed signals and emotional games. From negging and breadcrumbing to lovebombing and gaslighting, emotional manipulation can leave you questioning your worth and reality. In this post, therapist Odile McKenzie, LCSW, breaks down each behavior, shares real examples, and helps you learn how to spot these red flags early—so you can protect your peace and date from a place of self-worth.

Odile McKenzie, LCSW
Oct 14, 20252 min read


When the Days Get Darker: How to Cope with Loneliness This Winter
Colder weather often means more time inside — and more time alone. Here’s how to care for your mental health and combat loneliness this winter using gentle, therapist-approved strategies that actually help.

Odile McKenzie, LCSW
Oct 7, 20253 min read


Coping Between Therapy Sessions: How to Create a Coping Box for Stress & Anxiety
Struggling between therapy sessions? Learn how to create a personalized coping box filled with grounding tools, affirmations, and comfort items to manage stress and anxiety when life feels overwhelming.

Odile McKenzie, LCSW
Sep 30, 20252 min read


How to Spot Manipulation in Relationships: Family, Partners, and Trauma Bonds
Learn how to spot emotional manipulation in parents and partners, how trauma makes us vulnerable, and how to break free. Insightful, culturally relevant, and empowering.

Odile McKenzie, LCSW
Jun 10, 20253 min read


Understanding Anxiety: What It Is, Where It Comes From, and How to Begin Healing
Anxiety isn’t just in your head—it’s in your body, your relationships, and your story. Learn how anxiety develops through trauma, family dynamics, and cultural stress. Discover how it shows up physically and emotionally, and explore practical, empowering tools to help you cope. Ready to heal? Our trauma-informed, culturally affirming therapy can help.

Odile McKenzie, LCSW
May 21, 20253 min read


Wanting to Be Chosen Isn’t Weak,It’s Human: The Power of Black Love and Secure Attachment
Wanting to be chosen isn’t a weakness — it’s human. We’re wired for love and connection, but many of us, especially Black folks, have been taught to feel ashamed of that need. At Odile Psychotherapy, we help you unlearn emotional armor and build secure, loving relationships rooted in trust and healing. Love is not a luxury — it’s a path to collective and personal freedom. Ready to feel safe in love? Let’s begin.

Odile McKenzie, LCSW
May 6, 20252 min read


Navigating Uncertainties and Protecting Your Mental Health in Unpredictable Times
Struggling with uncertainty? Discover mindful strategies to protect your mental health and reclaim peace—especially for people of color.

Elizabeth Jean
Mar 28, 20252 min read
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