Waiting to be “healed” before dating may be holding you back. Healing is ongoing, relational, and shaped by culture, trauma, and connection. Learn why love doesn’t require perfection.

When the spark feels intoxicating but the relationship leaves you drained, it might not be chemistry — it could be a trauma bond. Learn how to recognize the difference and start your journey toward healthy, secure love.

Dating today can feel like a maze of mixed signals and emotional games. From negging and breadcrumbing to lovebombing and gaslighting, emotional manipulation can leave you questioning your worth and reality. In this post, therapist Odile McKenzie, LCSW, breaks down each behavior, shares real examples, and helps you learn how to spot these red flags early—so you can protect your peace and date from a place of self-worth.

Emotional neglect is a hidden trauma, especially in Black, immigrant, and POC communities where survival was love. But food, clothes, and shelter aren’t enough. This blog explores how emotional neglect impacts adult relationships, and how somatic healing and ritual can help you reconnect and heal. Don’t wait for permission to begin. Your healing starts now. Click the link in bio.