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Why You Fawn: People-Pleasing Isn't a Flaw, It Was a Survival Skill
You say yes when your whole body is saying no. You keep the peace, smooth things over, and somehow end up apologizing for things that weren't even your fault. Sound familiar? That's not a character flaw — that's fawning. And it made perfect sense once. Here's what it is, where it comes from, and what healing can look like

Odile McKenzie, LCSW
4 days ago4 min read


How to Avoid Falling for the “Hey, You Up?” Text Around Valentine’s Day
Valentine’s Day has a way of resurrecting old connections. Before you reply to the “hey, you up?” text, learn how nostalgia, loneliness, and social media can pull you back into something you already know wasn’t good for you, and how to choose yourself instead.

Odile McKenzie, LCSW
Feb 103 min read


Morning Mental Health Habits That Take Less Than 10 Minutes
Starting the day with intention can support emotional balance and reduce stress. These gentle morning mental health habits take less than 10 minutes and are designed to help you begin the day feeling more grounded. Created by a NYC therapy practice, this guide offers realistic support for everyday mental health

Odile McKenzie, LCSW
Dec 30, 20253 min read


Emotional Manipulation in Dating: How to Spot Negging, Breadcrumbing, Lovebombing & Gaslighting
Dating today can feel like a maze of mixed signals and emotional games. From negging and breadcrumbing to lovebombing and gaslighting, emotional manipulation can leave you questioning your worth and reality. In this post, therapist Odile McKenzie, LCSW, breaks down each behavior, shares real examples, and helps you learn how to spot these red flags early—so you can protect your peace and date from a place of self-worth.

Odile McKenzie, LCSW
Oct 14, 20252 min read


Coping with the Election Results: A Reflection for Black Women
This past week has been incredibly challenging for Black women, many of whom feel a range of emotions — rage, sadness, grief, and ...

Odile McKenzie, LCSW
Nov 12, 20243 min read
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